Each day I remember those who have left me here on earth to go to another life, my heart wrenches with grief, sorrow and pain.  
I do remember them and walk through the wonderful events, times and places I had with each loving one of them.  I shudder to think how close I came to live out a life without them, thus thankful for my moments and know we will be together forever once my time has come to leave this earth.
This was sent to me by a real friend who cared enough to share and comfort my losses.
Maybe this might help you with your grief and your feelings of loss.